I wasn’t planning on putting anything about this on my blog, Facebook or Twitter. But every time I went to my home page and saw “New Addition Due in June” under “Recent Posts,” it reminded me that I have not shared the whole story.
After 3 months, not only do I feel ready to write about this publicly, but I feel that I should acknowledge her in my “online” presence.
Evangeline Grace Jacobs was born alive on January 11, 2011, at 12:20 a.m. at Riverside Methodist Hospital. Her gestational age was 16 weeks and 3 days. She was too young gestationally to survive more than a few moments outside of the womb. We have pictures of her tiny face and tiny fingers. She was long and skinny, perfectly formed.
Why was she born so early? I can’t answer that, nor can my doctor. All that I know is that for some freakish and unexplainable reason, my water broke far too early, my body went into labor, and there was nothing that could be done to stop the whole chain of events.
And since then, I have been grieving. While it’s getting better overall, there are some good days and some really bad days. One thing that seems to help me is to acknowledge her. Which brings me around to why I’m finally writing about her after three months have passed.
One of my dear friends gave me a wonderful gift recently, and I don’t think she realizes how great it was. While we were talking on the phone, she mentioned Evangeline by name. Not “when you lost the baby” or anything along those lines, but she said, “after you had Evangeline …” I find it so uplifting to talk about her by name.
This was given to me by a dear friend who knows all too well how this feels.
Jennifer 
Sarah Skidmore 
Cindy Jacobs
Oh Rebecca, I am so sorry for both of you and your beautiful family. God bless you. I will be praying for you.
I lost an unborn child at 13 weeks. I don’t know what “she” looked like or if she even was formed, I guess probably not, I’ll not know until I’m in heaven. It was a really hard time, so in that way I can relate.
Praying the Holy Spirit’s comfort over you and your family. Something I recently thought about while working in the yard; we may not ever know a reason, and in our human frame of mind no reason may be good enough for things that happen. But God always provides a way.
Hugs and prayers sister.
Kris